Well whoever knows me would definitely agree that i am indeed a 'primary link' believer.. Gosh! people can be soo idiotic and mistaken 'primary link' syndrome to be arrogance,introvertism or whatever..But i still choose to believe that a friend's friend doesn't make you my friend..In the same way a friend's boyfriend/girlfriend/sibling etc doesnt make that person my bf/gf/sibling/etc..it simply makes you my friends "-----"(whatever relation fits)..fair enough,right??
Basically the primary link syndrome is about keeping in mind the primary link,not going about establishing relationships with the "---"(they form the secondary link)..I know a few people who simply don't get this..Or well,lets not be too harsh on them,maybe they are just "secondary link" kinda people you see..I knw someone who literally got soo close to her best friend's boyfriend only to land up loosin the bestfriend(duhhh!!!) and also they boyfriend(JERK!!)...I knw someone who is the bestfriend to one of my friends and invaribly when i share something wid dat friend of mine(like m on top of d world or down in d dumps) this bestfriend suddenly pops outta no where to ask me how i am doing and long time no see kinda blah...Do people even expect a reply to such questions??
Ok, so your bestfriend chooses to confide in you bout one of thier friends doesn mean you put on the 'ohhhhh i really care about you too..' pretence...eeww!!Its not that i resent concern and all..Not at all..but its just kinda weird when its not appropriate..or rather not from an appropriate source!! If i am down in the dumps and crying and low or kicked about something and high and celebrating why the hell would i wanna share explicit details wid anyone and evryone? infact, why would any one wanna??
Since m on this topic,i had to write abt some1 i knw who added me as a friend on orkut jus coz she saw me in her ex-boyfriends scrapbook!lol..
secondary link syndrome + insecurity==HOWLARIOUS!!
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