Monday, January 19, 2009

The MYTH about----"Gossip"!!

Well we've all heard it..agree or not,its a MYTH our soo called society just loves to admit--"Girls love to gossip"..Now i really aint here to prove the world wrong..or fight for women rights n all that jazz..i am just here to voice my opinion on this MYTH..the reason i call it a myth,is mind you,not coz of the MYTH word..but its coz of the "Girls"..well,it shud rightly be..PEOPLE GOSSIP!(that includes men& women)

I dunno if its an ego thing for the guys or sumthn they are prolly 'shy' or 'embarassed' or God alone knows what for them..but yeah hell GUYS gossip too..To all the guys who like to "BELIEVE" otherwise and term their gossiping sessions as "general discussions"(BULLSHIT!!)..seriously..admittin u do njoy gossip(jus like most humans do) aint gonna make u less of a man..although..ahemm.. choosin to play the denial game..wont help you score either..

So once again i'd wanna re-iterate that by no chance m i a feminist or sthn..its just that i do happen to have more guy frnds dan gurls(bloody engg is damm right responsible) and this jus happens to be my observation over not just over 4 years..bt over time..Guys,like girls do,TALK.. talk about other guys,girls,this,that,shes a bitch,shes a slut,he's an ass,she's hot(more on dat u knw),they broke up,here somethings cooking,heres a secret i wasn supposd to tell,he's a *&^%$...etc etc u knw..
Now what i am wonderin is why all this is termed as GOSSIP wen its between spoken about by girls and a so called DISCUSSION wen guys talk about it all..Which place on earth has GDs on these HOT topics and i dun knw of ???Funny species these ppl from Mars are !!!

The probable reason why guys claim they dont gossip is mainly coz they happen to do it lil more subtly unlike the fairer sex who wud love to chitter chatter in say the elavator,over the fone,during a lecture(blame the nonsensical teachers for this one),in the coffee shop,during practicals(blame the syllabus for this one)..basically anywhere..basically NOT UNDER WRAPS like the boys prefer to..

Seriously...I wish men wud jus grow up and get to admittin it man..whats the freakin harm?? After all, Researchers say that a little bit of gossip is healthy. It's what keeps the culture going, greasing the social machinery. So maybe you don’t have to feel guilty after all. And stop blaming it to be a GIRL ACTIVITY or sumthn man...After all,“It’s a social skill, not a character flaw,” says Frank McAndrew a professor of psychology at Knox College in Galesburg, Ill. “It’s only when you don’t do it well that you get into trouble.” :)

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