"Everything happens for a reason",really??

Well well well my 1st post fr '09 and i intend to begin it with some optimism,so what if in rhetoric sense?? I was jus wonderin(read:thinking,thinking and thinking soo much dat it consumed me n i cud think no more..[drama queen? u bet i am!]) abt dis whole concept of "everything happens for a reason"? So i wanna knw weder dis is actuallie true?? or weder as human beings we are jus programmed to cling on to sum ounce of hope??n wen we dont find dat hope..do we create it fr urselves??

So reflecting back at d past few months..i think..its true..but when the practical reasoning side takes over, i argue..Well sinc i finallie wanna make my mind on it..its time fr some analysis(uff i hate dat word after readin it sum 1000000 times stdyn software engg..but nono not dat analysis)

Is it right to say everything happens for a reason, when you part ways with some one only to realise hw indeed blessed you were to go this other way?? How indeed negative and made up was the true face behind d farce??(nautanki kahin kaa..sheesh!!)

Is it right to say everything happens for a reason, when you've spent nights and days not knowing what is it that what you really want, only to realise that wen u get ur answers its like the misplaced piece of a puzzle put in its spot??

Is it right to say everything happens for a reason, when you are left alone to fight your way through a mess,negativeness,madness;only to discover that you are smarter,wiser and stronger than you imagined??

Is it right to say everything happens for a reason, when people you know cheat.. only to get cheated themselves one fine day??[In this case,,evry bitch has her day:)..*evil grin* ]

Is it right to say everything happens for a reason, when one out of four sectional cutoffs aint cleard by mere 2 marks??[ damn u morons!!]

Is it right to say everything happens for a reason, when you meet some one..totally out of the blue..jlt...n ders a thing which cant be explained and defined??...(hypothetically u knw :))

Well even the Incredulous optimist cant help but agree..Duhh!! Stuff happens fr a reason..awsum reasons..jus dat d reasons aint too obvious at the start...

---My alternate career option is Philosophy :P !! or sumthng dat'l pay me fr all my AWSUM gyaan :) !

Loved the pic below..confess to have churaod it from d net..brilliant stuff !